“I don’t need you or anyone. I can do it on my own”… is a potent message promoted by the Dominator/Individualist/Separatism culture. (DISculture)
And of course this is especially promoted to the male of our species.
When of course, as with much we have been brainwashed with, the opposite is true.
When we are healthy, everything we do is about ‘relationality’.
Even going to the doctor or healer or therapist is about relationality.
The very act of needing another, heals the separation, creates a sense of wellness, and brings us back to Who we truly Are.
Excerpt from new book - 'Everything is Relating'
New-Age Myth: you have to love yourself fully before being able to truly love another.
Just not true peeps. Just look around you and notice that millions of people love each other dearly without fully loving themselves.
This myth is just a trick to keep us separated, and thinking that we’re not good enough.
Sure, it’s deeply important to heal and learn to love ourselves more fully. But ultimately, we learn about love by loving and being loved by another.
Sacred Activist, Writer, Integral Feminist, Energetic Healer, Conscious Relationships and Sexuality Counsellor, Coach, Facilitator and Speaker since 1991.
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