We’re living in a time where many people seem surprised when their actions come back to them. A tweet, a comment, a moment of cheering someone’s downfall—and suddenly, the echo returns. Jobs are lost. Reputations damaged. Friends vanish. And people are left wondering, “Why is this happening to me?”
​Let’s take a recent example. When news of Charlie Kirk’s death spread online, some people openly celebrated. They made jokes. Some even posted memes. But within days, many of those same people were losing their jobs or being called out publicly—not because someone was punishing them, but because the mirror of consequence was simply doing what mirrors do: reflect.
This isn't about morality or “getting what you deserve.” It’s about resonance. When we put a certain frequency into the world—whether that’s love, anger, ridicule, or compassion—it echoes back. Not as judgment. Just as feedback. Just as nature does.
Think of it like this: if you throw a ball against a wall, it comes back to you. That’s not punishment. That’s physics.

Parenting and the Illusion of Control
Now consider parenting.
For decades, many parents operated on a reward-and-punishment model: “Do this, and you’ll be punished. Do that, and you’ll be rewarded.” It worked—for a while.
But in recent years, a new approach has emerged, one that focuses less on control and more on connection. Instead of yelling at a child who lies, we ask: what made you feel unsafe telling the truth? Instead of punishing tantrums, we say: I see you’re overwhelmed. Let’s breathe together.
This doesn’t mean there are no boundaries. On the contrary, true boundaries don’t control behavior—they model coherence. They show what alignment feels like. And children—like all of us—learn not by being told, but by being shown.

From Punishment to Pattern
What’s happening now, on the global stage, is a kind of collective parenting moment.
When people cheer for someone’s death—even if they strongly disagree with them—it sends a distortion into the shared field. It creates a crack in the mirror of our shared humanity. And that crack doesn’t just reflect outward—it comes back home. Through job loss. Through emotional collapse. Through the slow realization: I don’t feel good about what I just put into the world.
But this isn’t about shame. It’s about the opportunity to wake up. To see more clearly. To ask ourselves: What kind of energy am I broadcasting into the field around me?

Coherence Is the New Agreement
Many people believe that “agreement” means thinking the same way. But real harmony isn’t about matching ideas. It’s about matching integrity.
When we’re in coherence, we can disagree with someone and still wish them well. We can challenge systems without becoming cruel. We can face darkness without becoming part of it.
Let’s say it simply:
Real agreement isn’t about everyone thinking alike—it’s about feeling aligned. When we resonate from a place of clarity and care, we’re in agreement with the deeper field. Even if our opinions differ.

A Wake-Up Call in the Darkness
So maybe this moment—the public exposure, the backlash, the consequences—is not a collapse, but a call. A wake-up.
Not to be more politically correct. Not to silence anyone. But to come back into harmony with what’s real, and human, and true.
Darkness always exposes itself right before a shift. Like a fever before healing. If we can meet this moment with honesty—not shame—we might just realign ourselves.
We might just remember:
Consequence is not punishment. It’s the field giving us feedback. It’s life saying: “Come home. You’re off key. Tune in again.”
And in that tuning, we find balance—not because we’re perfect, but because we’re listening again.

Background to this particular rave/blog...
I think I must hold the Guinness book of records for the amount of times I’ve been kicked unceremoniously out of groups - merely for asking for 'due process' - either for myself, or for others in the group. And what I mean by 'due process', is that, if someone makes allegations about someone else, then they need to provide some sort of valid proof/evidence... and that all voices get heard equally.

It happened again today. I got blocked. No discussion, no warning, no reason. Just blocked. 

Now I'm not talking about Facebook Fkdcheckers... all these groups have been either Spiritual or Personal Development or Sovereignty groups. And it would seem that the mere asking for a proper conflict resolution process is perceived as an act of extreme aggravation.

However, on the planet I come from, such a request is seen as an act of wisdom and care.

​Still trying to work out what they think on this planet. But it certainly appears like so many humans feel deeply threatened by the mere thought of actually having to listen deeply to someone, and sort something out in a decent and fair manner.
Beam me up, Scotty.
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Firstly, what does Freedom of Speech mean?
It means the right for anyone and everyone
to say what-ever they want,
wherever they want,
despite possibly being wrong,
or someone not liking what they are saying.
 
So now imagine a world where this god-given right is NOT upheld?
Stop and really imagine it. In the past, we in the West would immediately imagine somewhere like China or Korea, or Russia or Germany during the wars. And though more and more of us now realise that much of the 5I’s are sliding rather precariously into this form of fascism, it’s still hard for many people to realise the repercussions.
 
In essence, loss of freedom of speech means the end of democracy, law, ethics, community, culture – anything good and true and beautiful… and anything bad, and false and ugly.
 
And it has to be both sides – the good and the ugly. Because, right now,…( not later on, when we might have all magically ascended or raptured) … we are in 3d Physical.  And the whole point of being here, is to experience these extremes… to experience the extremes, so that thru experience and learning, we can come back into Balance and Wholeness and Love.
 
Woke ideology and its close cousin, Spiritual Bypassing, would much prefer that the world was all unicorns and fairy floss and high vibrations, based on the false assumption that only being’ positive’, and blocking out anything ‘negative’, means you are closer to ascending etc etc. Spiritual Bypassing means we want to jump all the stages and layers of 3D growth…the suffering, the uncertainty, powerlessness, the fear and the rage… and pass quickly and effortlessly to 5D/ Heaven etc.
 
And here’s another simpler word – DENIAL. The Denial of Truth, of what IS. And what IS on this 3D planet, is all the extremes of everything. How exciting is that! Our soul is just over the moon with the horrifying potential of that idea!
 
So, to paper-over the so called ‘negative’ (which is often someone just saying something you don’t agree with), is to miss the whole point of being here. Basically, it’s the coward’s way out. By blocking all dissention, we don’t get to have to face our own darkness, our own ignorance and fear. We don’t get to learn.
 
And so, not only do we stultify our own growth and learning, but we do that to others too. Which of course, is not a very loving thing to do.
 
Crushing Freedom of Speech (FOS) destroys Relationships and Community.
Healthy relationships and community can only flourish where there is a broad-spectrum of truth telling. This includes ignorant opinion, intuitive knowings, and fully verified facts. Where FOS is not allowed, entropy and stasis soon set in. People feel crushed, creativity dies, and only the narcissists and dominators flourish and prosper … with of course, eventual death of the relationship or community.
 
Keep up your Vibrations!
I can totally understand why many online groups encourage this idea of keeping up your vibrations. Both, because we are becoming so much more aware of the negativity on the planet, which can be really overwhelming, and the stress can push people into being their lesser selves. And then we get pointless unskilful bickering, which ends up going nowhere and often causing irreparable harm
So keeping those vibes high certainly has its place.
 
But to judge and demonise and control and oust people who are just having an opinion, is the epitome of fascism, and nothing to do with co-creating a New Earth.

So Freedom of Speech is essentially a black and white issue,
in that there are no degrees of FOS.
 
I often ask people, “Do you believe in FOS?”
and often they respond with, “Well, it depends.”
But no, it doesn’t depend on anything. It stands on its own.
 
Else, who is the arbiter… who decides what can, and cannot be spoken?
What are the criteria for someone to hold such a huge amount of power?
Can they be 100% trusted. And of course, the answer is simply NO and NO-ONE.
 
Ricky Gervais, the British Comedian, is a great example of someone who fiercely stands up for our right to say whatever we like, even it insults and hurts others.
 
CAVEATS
Because we don’t really live in a culture that encourages healthy truth-telling, many of us are not particularly practiced or skilled, and therefore we often end up being irrational, reactive, controlling, and even downright rude when attempting to 'tell the truth'. And there are consequences to being controlling or rude. It wrecks relationships.
 
But that just means we need to practice. And practicing in a strongly held environment, where abuse is not allowed, but all voices are, is paramount.
 
So, anyone with an ounce of wisdom or relationality, knows that the truth, or one’s opinion, is best spoken with at least some degree of skill, kindness and consideration.
 
But let’s be clear, it is not unkind to just state facts or question things. Many people who are still integrating the concepts of free speech, think that if you are questioning them, then you are being abusive.  But they are wrong. Asking questions is our god-given right, and essential for Democracy and Freedom. You as the listener, have a right to ignore them or answer them accordingly. In the online world, it’s called “scrolling on by” ;-)
 
So rather than endlessly and pointlessly reinventing the wheel every time a discussion happens in some group or other, why not fall back on the very well thought out article: 
 Article 19 of the United Nation’s Universal Declaration of Human Rights (1948) which says, “Everyone has the freedom of opinion and expression; this right includes freedom to hold opinions without interference and to seek, receive and impart information and ideas through any media regardless of frontier.” 
 Silencing ideas that do not align with our own prevents “a flourishing, open marketplace of ideas” that underlies the exchange of ideas, self-determination, and freedom.”
 
An immature society/group shuts down discussion, puts someone in the naughty corner and totally removes others.
A mature society/group learns how to manage this freedom
with kindness and respect, and clear boundaries.
 
So in conclusion, without Freedom of Speech, we don’t have Freedom, without Freedom we have Entropy and the death of anything that is meaningful and life-giving.  So those of us who are dreaming of co-creating a new and paradigm-shifting New Earth, let us learn to balance our Freedoms with our Responsibilities, and give others what we want for ourselves, which is to be SEEN and HEARD for the magnificent creators that we all are.